Dating can be complicated, and having a child of your own can further complicate things.
If you have children, don't let them keep you out of the dating world forever.
With regards to my own situation, being together so long made the transition of mommy’s friend to mommy’s boyfriend to mommy’s fiancé to daddy (something she began doing on her own) to mommy’s husband much easier. Your past does not define you but it did help shape you and had a huge impact on the person you are today.
Some of you might be thinking, "I'd love to start dating, but who would want to date someone with four children, a dog, and two parakeets? Don't automatically assume just because you have children, you're less desirable.
Find the right balance and you can find love again while keeping your kids involved.
What is the difference between dating and being in a relationship?
You read books on how to give birth and how to breastfeed, but learning how to date when you have a child seems much more complicated.When my ex-husband and I separated, I thought I’d be single for the rest of my life.I planned on keeping my married name, raising my 2-month-old daughter alone, and living out some kind of disservice.As parents when we have children the things we look for in a car are very different than what we may have looked for as a teen or single young adult.The car that is cool and fun to drive now may not be the right car for a family down the road. After having a child I knew that any person I dated had to have the potential to be someone I felt safe around and saw as reliable. From sleep issues to tantrums to potty training, you have to tackle every arduous aspect of parenting on your own.